воскресенье, 10 января 2010 г.

A new fatherWhen people are getting married they promise each other to stay together till the end of time, till death do them part but… but if there i

When people are getting married they promise each other to stay together till the end of time, till death do them part but… but if there is a hundred of couples who promise it there are only twenty of them who follow their promises, who keep their promises. And most of them leave each other and break their families, but people can’t stay alone for a long time and that is why they find new husbands. And a new husband is always a new father and it is not that easy for a child to accept the fact that this guy came to replace his father. It is a great stress for kid and that is why a mother is often obliged to make her choice between a kid and man she loves. It is hard to make such a choice and it is actually the matter of egoism. The best way to deal with this problem is to explain a kid there his or her father is the best man in the world and there is no such a person who would replace him and no one is going event to try to do that. And sure it is important for a kid to feel that he or she is still the main person in mother’s life.

All those dates

You have your family and you have people you care about and people that care about you. You have those people and you have to show them you love them and remember about them and appreciate them. I am talking about all those special dates when people were born and when they got married and when they had something special and all those holidays and so on and so forth. And in order not to hurt them and in order not to make them believe you don’t care about them, you have to keep all those dates in your mind and you have to greet each person f your family with a special day or something. You know, it is a disaster when you have to remember all those dates and at the same time you have not to forget about greetings and presents and congratulations and so on and so forth. A single mistake will turn you into a minster and into an egoistic creature that cares about no one but him or herself. And you will have to hear a lot and so it is better and easier not to forget than to explain why you had.